\u003C/a>\n\nThat's where the problem starts.\n\n\u003Cstrong>We never claimed that subjective questions were horrible abominations that should never be asked.\u003C/strong> We simply choose to forego those subjective discussions, as there were dozens upon dozens of forums which already catered to them.\n\nBut software and programming isn't always a hard science, either. Once you get past the \u003Cem>does this code compile or not\u003C/em> questions, you're dealing with issues of best practices, experiences, and behaviors. Perhaps because our communities have become so accustomed to getting quick, accurate, and timely answers, they feel that even a subjective Stack Overflow is better than the alternatives. So much so, that our fellow programmers created \u003Ca href=\"http://programmers.stackexchange.com\">a sister site specifically for their pent up subjective questions\u003C/a>. Take one heaping pile of subjective questions, bottle it up for over two years and… \u003Cem>kablooey!\u003C/em>\n\n\u003Ca href=\"http://programmers.stackexchange.com\">\n\u003Cimg src=\"http://stackoverflow.blog/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/programmers-se.png\" alt=\"\" />\u003C/a>\n\nThe \u003Ca href=\"http://programmers.stackexchange.com/\">programmers.stackexchange.com\u003C/a> site exploded overnight, hosting some of the best (and worst) questions on the Stack Exchange network.\n\nNow turn the page.\n\n\u003Ca href=\"http://moms4mom.com/\">Moms4mom\u003C/a> was an early Stack Exchange 1.0 case study in subjectivity. The owners knew from the outset that the topic of parenting was inherently and deeply subjective, a fundamentally bad fit to our engine. Parenting is one of the most subjective subjects I can imagine; every child is different, every parent is different, and whole cultures are \u003Cem>wildly\u003C/em> different in how they approach child rearing. After all, who can say for certain \u003Ca href=\"http://moms4mom.com/questions/161/what-order-should-i-watch-the-star-wars-saga-with-my-children-for-the-first-tim\">what order one should watch the Star Wars (saga) with your children for the first time?\u003C/a>\n\nThe folks at Moms4mom owned up to the subjective issue and came up with a set of principles to create \u003Cem>useful\u003C/em> subjective discussions on parenting: the \u003Ca href=\"http://moms4mom.com/faq/\">\u003Cstrong>Back It Up! Principle.\u003C/strong>\u003C/a> Back It Up! means that your answers must be based on either:\n\n\u003Cul>\n \u003Cli>Something that happened to you \u003Cstrong>personally\u003C/strong>\u003C/li>\n \u003Cli>Something you can \u003Cstrong>back up \u003C/strong>with a reference\u003C/li>\n\u003C/ul>\n\nThey talk about how \"opinion, by itself, is noise.\" They're not saying that subjective opinions are to be avoided; they're attempting to mold and shape their inherently subjective Q&A; into something constructive, informative and helpful. As it turns out, there is an entire field of subjective \"expertise\" that has the hallmarks of making \u003Cstrong>great Q&A sites\u003C/strong>:\n\n\u003Cimg src=\"http://stackoverflow.blog/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/screenshot-0.png\" alt=\"\" />\n\nIf we can avoid conversations that are -- and this is the really tricky part -- \u003Cem>too subjective\u003C/em>, we can maintain the ideals of great Q&A in the face of completely subjective topics. We can \u003Cem>avoid\u003C/em> falling into the predictable destructive patterns of random discussion, debate, and opinion that turn a site from a learning experience into a glorified cheap-thrills gossip rag.\n\nI can generally tell when a question is \u003Cem>unreasonably\u003C/em> subjective. I can't always describe it, but \u003Ca href=\"http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_know_it_when_I_see_it\">I know it when I see it\u003C/a>. Unfortunately, that's not good enough to base a policy on.\n\n\u003Cblockquote>I shall not today attempt further to define [hard-core pornography]; and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it... -- Potter Stewart of the Supreme Court of the United States\u003C/blockquote>\n\nEven the definition of what is too subjective on Stack Exchange is somewhat ... subjective. But \u003Cstrong>we can provide a set of guidelines that help you determine what a good subjective question is\u003C/strong>. It's akin to determining \u003Ca href=\"http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fair_use\">what is fair use, and what is not\u003C/a> -- a multi-factor test where you attempt to fit a few guidelines to the specifics of your situation.\n\n\u003Ch2>Guidelines for Great Subjective Questions\u003C/h2>\n\n\u003Col>\n \u003Cli>\u003Cstrong>Great subjective questions inspire answers that explain \"why\" and \"how\".\u003C/strong> The best subjective questions \u003Cem>invite explanation\u003C/em>. If you're asking for a product recommendation of some kind, you want answers to contain detailed information about the features and how they can be used, and why you might want to choose one over the other. \"How?\" and \"Why?\" has more lasting value than a bunch of product-feature bullet points or a giant enumerated list, no matter how extensive. In contrast, the bad subjective questions let answerers get away with hit-and-run answers that maybe provide a name and a link -- but fail to provide any sort of adequate explanation, context, or background.\u003C/li>\n \u003Cli>\u003Cstrong>Great subjective questions tend to have long, not short, answers\u003C/strong>. The best subjective questions inspire your peers to \u003Cem>share their actual experiences\u003C/em>, not just post a mindless one-liner or cartoon in hopes of being rewarded with upvotes for being merely \"first.\" Sharing an experience takes at least one paragraph; ideally several paragraphs. If I'm asking about how to bake cookies, don't give me a list of grocery items: milk. butter. vanilla. eggs. There is virtually nothing I can learn from a short, static list of grocery items that make up a recipe. Instead, tell me what happened the last time you made cookies \u003Cem>from\u003C/em> that recipe! Share your detailed experiences, so that we all might learn from them.\u003C/li>\n \u003Cli>\u003Cstrong>Great subjective questions have a constructive, fair, and impartial tone.\u003C/strong> The best subjective questions avoid the all too seductive route of ranting and flamebait. They set the right tone of constructive learning and collaboration from the very outset, by emphasizing that we're all here to learn from each other, even if we have different viewpoints or beliefs about the right way to handle what are inherently subjective decisions. We're not here to fight each other; that's an enormous waste of everyone's time. There is always \u003Cem>more than one right way\u003C/em>.\u003C/li>\n \u003Cli>\u003Cstrong>Great subjective questions invite sharing experiences over opinions\u003C/strong>. Certainly experiences inform opinions, but the best subjective questions unabashedly and unashamedly prioritize sharing actual experiences over random opinions. It's more useful to share with us \u003Cem>what you've done\u003C/em> than \u003Cem>what you think\u003C/em>. Everyone has an opinion. It takes zero effort or imagination to have an opinion about anything and everything. But people who have \u003Cem>done\u003C/em> things, real things in the world, and have the scars and arrows in their back to show for it -- now that's worth sharing. You should be uniquely qualified to have your opinion based on the specific experiences you had. And you should share those experiences, and more specifically what you \u003Cem>learned\u003C/em> from your experiences, with us!\u003C/li>\n \u003Cli>\u003Cstrong>Great subjective questions insist that opinion be backed up with facts and references\u003C/strong>. Opinion isn't \u003Cem>all\u003C/em> bad, so long as it's backed up with something other than \"because I'm an expert\", or \"because I said so\", or \"just because\". Use your specific experiences to back up your opinions, as above, or point to some research you've done on the web or elsewhere that provides evidence to support your claims. We like you. We \u003Cem>want\u003C/em> to believe you. But like Wikipedia itself, [citation needed]. And good subjective questions make this clear from the outset: \u003Cem>back it up!\u003C/em>\u003C/li>\n \u003Cli>\u003Cstrong>Great subjective questions are more than just mindless social fun\u003C/strong>. The best subjective questions avoid the social pitfalls of \"Getting To Know You\" (GTKY) and mindless entertainment. Sometimes people just want to poll a community for ideas that might help solve a problem (best book, best approach). These can be okay when there is actual knowledge in the collection of answers. What \u003Cem>isn't\u003C/em> okay are the social bonding questions which are designed just to impress others, such as \"What is the coolest/stupidest/weirdest/funniest thing you saw/did/tasted today?\", or questions where the site's actual topic is tacked on as a token afterthought, such as \"Favorite food for programmers.\" If you removed the \"for programmers\" part of this question, is it really unique to our profession? Could an average member of our community reasonably be expected to \u003Cem>learn something that makes them better at their job\u003C/em> from this question? If not, then it's a bad subjective question.\u003C/li>\n\u003C/ol>\n\nSo, there you have it: the difference between a good subjective question and a bad subjective question -- expressed as six simple guidelines. If you're wondering if a particular subjective question is worthy, wonder no longer. \u003Cstrong>Apply the six subjective question guidelines and see how it scores.\u003C/strong> If the score is low, close it. If the score is high, vote it up. You can expect to see these guidelines enforced on programmers.stackexchange.com over the next week or so, and made policy network-wide, wherever subjectivity is part of the site topic itself.\n\nIf you think this is all too complicated, well, I guess that's \u003Cem>subjective\u003C/em>. But, \u003Ca href=\"http://scobleizer.com/2009/11/02/the-chat-roomforum-problem-an-apology-to-technosailor/\">as Robert Scoble correctly pointed out\u003C/a>, this is the price of allowing some subjectivity without letting it undermine and destroy the very learning aspect of our communities that we believe makes them worthwhile in the first place.\n\nAs for me, I say \u003Cstrong>subjective questions are dead. 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